

A few weeks ago, Craig received a call from President Connolly, asking to meet with both of us the following evening. With me having so recently been called as Stake Relief Society president, we could not imagine why he wanted both of us - it had to be something for Craig.
Counselor in a bishopric? (For the 11th time, maybe the 12th - we could handle that!) Possibly something to do with the Spanish Branch? (Having served in Rantoul without me for two years [I was ward Relief Society president, and they didn't want to release me from that] we knew he could do that, although it would be a hard go alone.) Temple workers in Chicago? (Doable, although the traffic gives me the heebie-jeebies and would be a trial of my faith.)
President Connolly arrived the following evening, and we sat down together in the living room. He asked if he could see Craig alone so I excused myself. That was a little unusual in light of my own calling - usually if the wife is going to get a calling, the priesthood holder asks to chat with the husband first. But I had just gotten a pretty hefty calling.... Surely he wasn't going to release me already?? (Okay, I admit I tease President Connolly and call him "The Grand Poobah" and other such grandiose names sometimes.....)
I went and waited in our bedroom, but the wait wasn't very long. Craig came back after only a few minutes and it was MY turn to meet alone with the Stake President. He asked me if I felt there was love and harmony in our home. (NOT the kind of question you usually get in priesthood interviews!)
Curiouser and curiouser!!
And then Craig was asked to return, and President Connolly, with a wonderful, almost beatific, smile, said that he could feel the Spirit in our home and that he was authorized by the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles (GULP!!!) to ask Craig to be Patriarch of the Lafayette, Indiana Stake.
We did NOT see that coming.
President Connolly explained that this was not a calling, it was an ordination. That Craig's priesthood would actually be higher than his own, but that he could ordain Craig with authority from the Quorum of the Twelve (and he showed us a letter from Elder Packer which he also later gave to us.)
Curt, Lisa, and Jessica were able to join with us for the ordination on Sunday, June 7. We had invited all our children to come, but we also knew they were busy with their families, school, etc., and that this might not be a good time for them. We told them we understood if they did not make it, and spoke to Kyle and Sarah later on the phone (and Cole via email that evening.)
President Connolly invited me to come to the Stake Priesthood meeting that morning and "hang out in the back" (I sat with Jessica and Lisa in the foyer) and listen while Craig's name was read in and then he was sustained. I admit I was shaky and nervous, and glad my girls were with me! (And glad that President Connolly extended that privilege to be present!) Curt got to sit with his dad - a real treat on such a day.
Afterward, we met with President Connolly and he, and he alone, ordained Craig. Jessica, Lisa, Curt, and I were the only others present. And as President Connolly was ordaining him, he said something that was almost near verbatim from Craig's own patriarchal blessing. I felt such a witness then about what Craig was being asked to do.
It is an honor for Craig to serve - he is the first patriarch called in 33 years and replaces Brother Hafen. And now begins the flurry of meetings, preparation, reading of handbooks, etc. Just last night, Brother Castro from the Spanish Branch told him that 13 members there have been waiting to get their blessings in spanish. (Fortunately President Connolly stepped in and responded that Craig needed some time to prepare and that it would be a while before he was ready to bless in spanish.)
This is a lifetime calling, and Craig will never serve in that 11th or 12 bishopric or other callings. That's a big change, but he is more than up to the task.