Over spring break, I went to look at horses with my sister, Leslie. Her Standardbred, Loomis, had recently had to be euthanized, and she was looking for a replacement. The Indiana Horse Rescue in Frankfort had a Standardbred listed, so we went down. I was NOT looking to become a horse owner.
Long story short, there was an Appaloosa mare there named Sassy who is the spitting image of my beloved mare, Amy. In fact, I burst into tears when I saw her as the resemblance was so uncanny. She has been on my mind ever since, and I have been exploring options as I think about adopting her.
Today I went down to see her again. I wanted to see if she was gentle and good on the ground, if I could pick up her feet, tweak her ears, and do other things that show a horse is gentle and sane.
She was all that. And more.
I asked the facility manager to let me go out in the pasture and get her to see if she would be hard to catch.
She wasn't. She came right over and stood quietly while I haltered her. (I fumbled a bit - after all, it's been twenty years!)
She led quietly to the barn despite the fact that her pasture mates were following her and even trying to nip her out of the way so they could get some attention from me. No problem.
No problem walking through the barn, either, even with scary objects in the aisles and the occasional stalled horse who nickered at her and even ran against the stall door, trying to get to her. Not an ear twitch.
We put her in the round pen to see if she could longe (no) or how she would react. I was very impressed that she was not trying to get back to her pasture mates, although they were a bit agitated, nickering and calling to her. She answered once, but she never seemed bothered to be away from the herd. That's a very good sign.
Melanie had to go into the office for a phone call, and left me alone in the round pen with Sassy. I unclipped the longe line and turned her loose to see what she would do. And a very interesting thing happened.
Sassy went over to the bars of the pen and began nibbling some grass.
But then she put her head up, walked over to me for a few moments, and then past me to another spot to graze. I decided to move to another spot in the pen and see what happened. After a few bites, she put her head up and walked over. I patted her, and then she went back to the rail to eat. I began moving around the pen to see how she would react, and every single time, she would come over for a moment, no matter where it was I had moved, and then return to eating.
This, of course, is the horsey equivalent of PUPPY EYES.
But then she did something that really surprised me. Melanie was coming out of the office and walking back to the round pen. I walked over to the fence, rested my arms on the rail, and was talking to Melanie as she approached. Sassy came up behind me, then turned sideways so she was perpendicular to me and stood still, leaning her hip against my backside. And she stood there, just content to have some body contact with me!
Oh, no!! HORSEY HIPS!! Combine that with the puppy eyes equivalent, and I was sinking fast!
Interestingly enough, Sassy did not go to greet Melanie. In fact, she paid no attention to her, instead facing away from Melanie and just leaning her hip into my backside. I have NEVER had a horse do that, and my heart melted.
So, what am I going to do now? I don't know for sure. I have checked out two possible places to keep her, and I did fill out the adoption papers. Craig has given his blessing, and I told Melanie I would let her know by Tuesday. I will think and pray. Hard.
But, I did stop at a farm supply store on the way home and purchase a halter, lead rope, two brushes, and some tack cleaner....