This is the beginning of an intermittent series titled, The Story of... where I will write about some of the dogs that have graced our home, both past and present. Today I will share the story of Molly.
I haven't written much about the dogs recently but they are very much a presence in our lives. I took this snap of Nash, Pepper, and Molly at Lisa's home earlier this week.
Molly was originally our dog, not Lisa's. We got her from a rescue and she had come from a situation where she had been used as a breeder for puppies. Was it an actually puppy mill? We are not sure. But it had similar conditions to one.
Molly as she looked when she arrived at the rescue. She's dirty, she's stressed, and she's very, very scared. This photo breaks my heart. (She'd also just had a litter of nine puppies taken away from her.)
She came to us with terrible fears and anxieties - we have no idea what happened to her or why she was (and still is) so terrified of things, especially men.
We struggled to make her feel comfortable. She got to the point where she would let me approach her and pet her, but would leap in alarm at the slightest sound or if I moved too quickly. She also began to relax somewhat around Craig, although she did not want him to touch her.
Enter Lisa and her dog, Millie. Lisa teaches school and so a couple of times a week, she would bring Millie over for the day, just so she would have some company and get out of the house.
Lisa and Millie. Photo by Vanessa Isenbarger/Pearl Photo and Design
Millie was an older dog and we noticed that Molly would relax and was more comfortable when Millie was visiting. She enjoyed having the company of another dog and had more confidence when Millie was around.
We also noticed that Molly ADORED Lisa - she would run to the door and greet Lisa when she arrived to pick up Millie, and then sit by her side if Lisa stayed and visited a while. Molly was a different dog around those two and clearly much happier with them than she was with us.
After nine months, Craig and I finally made the difficult decision to let Molly go and be Lisa's dog and not ours. I cried and cried after she left. But that turned out to be the absolute best decision we could have made for Molly.
Molly had found her forever home. She was deliriously happy and stuck like glue to Lisa's side.
Millie and Molly were companions for three years and then, sadly, Millie passed away in February, 2021. Knowing that Molly needed a companion dog, Lisa rescued Nash.
Big, goofy, still-puppyish Nash, young enough to be Molly's great-grandson and big and gentle enough to make her feel safe and secure.
In less than a day, they had bonded and Molly was cuddling up with him to sleep.
It's been a bit over four years since her rescue, and Molly is doing really well. While she still can startle easily and is very hesitant around people she does not know, she has accepted Craig and me and is not afraid of us anymore.
Me giving Molly a good skritch under her foreleg a few weeks ago. Her toes are splayed in delight and her ears are in happy position.
Snooze buddies - Craig petting her as he falls asleep in his chair. (She had approached him and asked for some attention.)
Enjoying some Skinny Pop with me while Lisa is at school. (Molly got the first piece and is chewing.)
Checking me out recently when I was trying to nap on the couch. She was hoping I'd pet her instead of sleeping - what a change from the days when she would run from our touch!
Look at the love in her eyes! She is sitting up on her hind legs and has placed her paw on Lisa's arm.
Trusted to be off leash and enjoying the summer grass in our yard.
It took the first eight years of her life, but Molly now knows she is safe and loved. And she loves right back.
Deeply.